"Give orphans their property, do not replace their good things with bad, and do not consume their property with your own-a serious crime. If you fear that you will not deal fairly with orphan girls, you may marry whichever women seem good to you, two three, or four. If you fear that you cannot be equitable to them, then marry only one, or your slave, that is more likely to make you avoid bias. Give women their dowry as a gift upon marriage, though if they are happy to give up some of it for you, you may enjoy it with clear conscience."
I am wondering if by this passage, the Qur'an is telling Muslims to marry orphans before they marry someone with a family. Or was the Qur'an simply talking of orphans before moving onto the dealing of marriage. I read this passage over and over again and cannot figure out as to why the Muslim men are supposed to marry orphans first.
Then, my next question is, it says that a man is allowed to marry more than one wife as long as he is equitable to all. Later in the passage, it says that it is impossible for a man to be equitable to all wives. So why would they be allowed to marry more than one woman in the first place. Just out of curiosity, I am wondering what percentage of men actually do marry more than one woman. In the United States, it is illegal to have more than one wife at a time. Does this have any effect on a Muslim's belief about marriage and do they object to America's law?
Other interesting points I found, was that it says divorce can happen twice, a widow must wait four months and ten nights before marrying etc. Do these numbers have any significance toward something Muhammad did with his wives in the past or are these numbers just an amount that the Muslims think is fair?